Bachelor Party, boys only

A few weeks ago we wrote an article about the Bachelorette Party (here), so today, Label’ Emotion London wants to focus on boys 😉 and more specifically on their Bachelor party!
Time to let your seat to your boyfriends girls, Label’ Emotion London has a date with them 😉

If you are reading this article right now, you are whether a friend of the groom to be, probably the best man (and you have to plan the Bachelor Party!!) or the actual groom to be (and you are just curious to learn about your own future Bachelor Party, and try to find clues!)

First, let me tell you that you have a lot to do, and you can’t take it lightly!
Planning an event is a real job, and you probably think that it is more a girl job than a boy job… But planning a Bachelor Party is forbidden for girls, boys only remember?

Let’s begin the lesson with the traditional but important speech about the Bachelor Party.
If you are not very aware of the traditions and all the wedding stuff we are here to cut it short and explain you what it is exactly.

The Bachelor Party is a memorable moment in all the grooms-to-be’s life. Traditionally the best man is in charge of the organization but it can also be the brother, the cousin or any other close friend.

Your friend is getting married and I can assure you that he is waiting for his Bachelor party very impatiently, trying to figure out what you have planned for him, sometimes afraid of what he will bear, what you will make him do.
So think very carefully before you start planning the whole thing.

The most important things are:
– Think about what he would like
– Eliminate what he would hate

After these two important steps, it is time to decide what kind of Bachelor Party you want to throw out.
An adventurous kind of guy won’t appreciate the same bachelor party as a Geek kind of guy!!
Maybe you could ask the groom beforehand if there are things he REALLY doesn’t want to do, because the traditional combination of Alcohol, gambling and strippers is not necessarily the tastes of everyone.
To figure out this, you have to know how much people will attend this bachelor party, if you can’t choose for him, ask him to put together a guest list.
It will give you a rough idea of the party you can organize or not.

Consult the others groomsmen , or friends to discuss it and make the right choices.
Share your ideas, and try to be the more objective as possible, it is important to organize something for him and keep his personality and interests in mind.
Your budget will define what kind of party you can organize, and how long the fun can last!
A day, a night, a weekend?

Once you’ve decided the budget, the duration and the type, you have to pick a date!
And to do that, we advise you to consult her lovely fiancé to make sure you choose the right time! She will be able to tell you better than anyone if he has obligations!
For any kind of Bachelor Party, try not to plan it the night before the wedding; hangovers and getting married don’t really get along.
And ps: the bride will kill you if you embark her lover into a “very bad trip” kind of party the day before the wedding!! And honestly, you don’t want to mess with a bride to be, especially 24 hours before her wedding…

So try to pick a date that suit everyone, including the bride to be, and take in account that the more you get closer to the wedding, the more he will be busy and stress with wedding stuff…
Organize everything, make sure you have thought about every details, transport, bookings, activities etc..
Make a list and check gradually all your tasks, and ask all the guests to RSVP weeks before the D-day so you can make all the reservations.

Now guys, remember that the most important thing is for the groom to have a good and memorable time, he is the king of the party and you have to do everything in your power to please him!
Your buddy is going to take that long (and scary) way to the aisle so he deserves to have a perfect Bachelor Party and a last night as an unmarried guy!!

Have fun !

xx